Tuesday, September 14, 2010

This sucks!

As happy I was yesterday, as sad/mad I am today.
I just found out my husbands work will send him to work 7 hours away from home.
All of a sudden I will be a "widow" for the week days.
Shit! Being a single mum with 3 kids does not appeal to me.
Swim school, homeworks, playing, dinner, tuck in - all of that will be all my work now...and on top of it all I will try to start my own business with my own clothing. Not a good combo.
Hopefully it's just until Christmas.
But every second apart is one second you can never get back. What about all my hugs and kisses :(

Dear Santa,
all I want for Christmas....


  1. hugs and kisses from Finland! I can not believe how you always get everything done, you miracle woman. (:

  2. Aaaaawn... Be strong! You'll make it, I'm sure you're capable of all that and more. But I know how it feels to have a loved one far away u.u
    I'm sure Santa will bring him safe and happy for Christmas ^^

  3. aww ;( feel kissed and hugged.
    You'll make the best of it, I'm sure.

    best wishes from germany

  4. I'm so sorry for you. I hope it wont be for long.
    Best wishes

  5. that ugly it is horrible having to do all this alone.

    but you may, and you're a gothic wonder woman!
    kisses from Argentina!

  6. honey I'm sur eyou'll handle that as you can handle everything .. but I know it's really hard!! ( look at the bright side : he will be sooo happy to see you in the week-end he'll probably do all the housework only to see you happy :)) kiss :*

  7. Some years ago my husband found a new work and we lived for one year in different towns. We could see each other only every second weekend for at least 36 hours. The most difficult thing was, that we always started a quarrel when we met, because we both had too high expectations to this weekends. I really keep my fingers crossed for you, that you can get back to normal family life soon! Greetings from Germany :-)

  8. That is so sad! I know what it feels like to only be able to see the one you love on weekends. My fiance and I have schedules that make it very hard to see each other during the week since I work at night and he works during the day. I feel for you, especially with having three kids! But you are an amazing woman and you can do it! Be strong like an Amazon! :)

  9. Aww. Well, everything will be okay in the end I'm sure of it! You two are soul mates and I've never seen a couple more destined to be together! You will get your hugs and kisses soon Adora! xx

  10. When me and my brother were around your kids' age, my mum was a "widow" on the weekdays too, but she did a really great job,
    so i'm sure you can do it too!
    you're surely a wonderful mummy and an amazing wife too,
    your weekends will be even more precious in the future and remember it's not going to be like this forever ;)
    your love is strong and you'll probably get all those hugs and kisses from your lovely kids in the meantime :)
    xx <3

  11. Thats sucks :( I hope that you will be ok ;) I think you're going to make it! Go Adora